Not sure; uncertain; lacking further ideas, direction, or ability.(phrase)
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Use "at a loss" in a sentence
"This is doubtful, and even Brown's most admiring biographers are at a loss when confronted with Pottawatomie; one suggests that he was in a trance, another refers to the murders as "executions", but none can offer an acceptable explanation, let alone a defence."
"Bill Roscoe spoke briskly, obviously at a loss to understand the tough Marine Major's remark."
"The most trusted of my counselors is a man of extraordinary competency never at a loss in any situation."